Divorce can be an emotional rollercoaster that is full of turns and surprises. It works this way because of one importnat factor – human nature. When you meet someone and you fall in love, you start thinking and feeling differently. Your world changes and the person you love becomes the center of it. You place them first, abandon logic, common sense, reason and will do just about anything to make them happy to make the relationship last. The same powerful force kicks in when you no longer love this person except that now, it works to drive you apart. You are no longer thinking rationally or responsibly again and now this person is the target of your anger and disappointment.
Our goal is to get you to the other side of this complicated multi-lane highway safely so you do not get hit by the oncoming traffic
This is where divorce lawyer come in. Our job is to make sure that the right decisions and the right things happen at the right time. With unclouded judgement and deep knowledge of the law, out goal is to get you to the other side of this complicated multi-lane highway safely so you do not get hit by the oncoming traffic of issues, both legal and psychological. We also safeguard everyone and everything you carry in tow such as your children and assets.
So where do we start? We start by telling our clients the truth. The truth about them, their divorce, the decisions they already made and will need to make, the law and how the process will move forward, their legal rights as they relate to their children and assets and the cost that is both financial and emotional involved.
The truth about us, who we are, what we do, what we believe, how we practice law and how we handle these matters in and out of court. This is a very difficult and uncomfortable step because many times, we are forced to say things client do not want to hear and we don’t really want to say out loud. But it must be done, no matter how hard or inconvenient it may be for the client to hear the truth or for us to say it. This is a critical first step to the proper attorney-client relationship.
Important information about the divorce process
Acceptance – an important first step to the divorce process.
Before you can move on, you have to forgive. Then you can see things clearly.
Do not get stuck in divorce. you must get through it as quickly as possible.
it’s not whose fault it is that you are getting divorced, but whose fault it will be that you wasted all your time and resources fighting.
the difference between uncontested and contested divorce is your money, time, stress, mental and physical health.
some marriages should be saved. others that are toxic need to be terminated and buried six feet under quickly.